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Thank you Dr Jennifer Freyd for your research and voice! This topic is very important and evermore relevant. We can all benefit from freely discussing and understanding Betrayal Trauma, Betrayal Blindness, Instructional Courage and what we can do about it. 🔑 👏🏼

A neurosis is a perpetual motion machine.

The k you for this video! I am going to be certified as a CTRC - working as a trauma recovery coach- and I'm getting ready for my ethics exam. I came across your name while doing some research on countertransference. You are my new hero- I have been working with female trauma survivors up until now, and have teaching experience with young children, but when I heard you say that your organization helps people at the start of what will undoubtedly develop from incident to a trauma, I was so inspired. I really would love tone a part of that.

I went a few months without social media and it felt like giving my brain a clean bath. Felt great afterwards, and disgusted that we are letting our children glue their eyes and ears to their phones, where random people are fighting for their attention. The mindfulness workbook called 30 Days Without Social Media by Harper Daniels gores great with Jonatha's book.

He explains it in such a simple way. Love hearing him

Well we know Trump wasn’t

I’m in a group processing class at my college, obtaining my associates in addiction and mental health services. My professor is wonderful- he references Dr. Rutan all the time. Thanks for the upload

I have read the 5th version of group psychotherapy. I'm so glad to hear from one of the authors. What he is presenting is so true and assuaring. I wish I could attend his group sometime.

Someday people will view social media like cocaine--initially thought to be a wonder drug, universally abused, and too late regulated as a massive social ill. And this man will get a great deal of the credit. Not only is he brilliant; like John McWhorter, he has the assertive but non-confrontational personality that makes his message easier for the reluctant to accept. Thank you!

Excellent interview. Judith Coche is superb.

That presenter😂

Ye khaandaan hee intellectuals aur scholars ka hai..🙏🙏

Please look at the expression on this provider's face - does it look like a healthy person's facial expression? People's feelings and thoughts get imprinted on their face. In this woman's eyes and mouth, you see something unusual. Their facial expression reminds me of my psychiatric patients and ones anti-psychotic meds. Why are they wearing rings on both of their hands? Does this look and act like a healthy person? I have my doubts. It might be Bell's Palsy, but I think this is another odd person with issues. AGPA seems to be like a cesspool of weirdos from the cult like problematic Boston Institute of Psychoptherapy.

Awesome! I will share this widely.

Enjoyed this. Yalom is brilliant and funny

If there is decision fatigue, could there be such a thing as 'betrayal fatigue'? Because I've been calling-out even the most mundane discrepancies in agreements.

The guy talks and presents himself in a self-biased and self-serving manner, and what he is teaching people is 'cringe' and brainwashing. Just ask yourself and use common here - why do you need this? Why do you need to do X or Y - it's like being socialized into being a therapy-cult while playing to the self-biased narcissism and brainwashing of student therapists.

Karen wears a White Dress Shirt and Light Blue Jeans with Barefoot.

DARVO...Who would say this? So called "pastor" and "church"/cult I deal with here in Croatia Europe. Pure evil

Loved every word of this session!

True intellectual

So many self serving, upselling assumptions in the title - highly unscientific. Research shows 30% harm from among the patients. And.. the importance for what? It's not like a president would upsell and market their own organization, would they.. and that would be like.. unethical from a science perspective wouldn't it..? Another observation - a lot of the therapist profiles have odd weird people with weird faces, weird facial hair like this guy, odd facial expressions showing like they are not you know the solid and stable median of the population with regard to personality, which puts into question if one should take them as the voice of reason, and if they even can be.

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Make Jesus Christ your personal Lord and Savior then you will find freedom!

My grandmother has been going to a great one of a kind therapy group taught by the best therapist who specializes in helping people with anger management through group psychotherapy, or what I call 'groups.' People get together and help each other. The therapist is brilliant and uncovers things about life gradually and you will keep learning things for years until you reach 'UNLOCKED HUMAN' level. Life becomes clear then and marriage, job and ability to conversate with anybody and hold your own weight, observe the other person, and 'navigate' any 1:1 interaction. Usually marriage, kids and job follows, a better kind of sex too, and an ability to date hot people you want. You also use your time better. The people in the group are the best people because they take the time to come and learn this in a group, not alone. However, we also discuss what is wrong with them and why are they still there since all other original members have gotten married and move along in their career onto better things. The group is the perfect place to work on anything you need. However, it is also just a day care for lonely adults who have no other place to go. But really, it is a sort of Matrix where 5-10 bodies are hooked up to the therapist through pipes, with the little weekly payments supporting the underpaid but overly credentialed group therapist's mortgage, car, food, clothing, travel and retirement payments. This system best remain for years and decades and not be disturbed until the therapist's retirement and/or when one of the patients begins to get disconnected from the Matrix and notice inconsistencies, hypocrisy, falseness, uselessness, harm, and unethical things about the group and therapist who controls it. Those people are pressured to stop criticizing the therapist by the discussion of what is wrong with them, of which the therapist always has a bag full of insights about everyone's personal character, behavior and psychological faults. Any criticism of the therapist will hit a wall and then an attack on the non-group think person will follow, the person will either stop criticizing the therapist (the discussion will go nowhere) or be made unwelcome in the group, once the person leaves, the therapist will discredit the person and make an alternative dishonest explanation of why that person left that has to do with that person being lazy, avoidant, missing out, not understanding, or crazy or being overwhelmed by all the 'work' and 'openness' in the group and it will be something about the person's mother or father, not the unethical abusive dishonest useless behavior of the therapist. The group will be marketed as the perfect place to work on any issues, those who quit will doubt themselves so much and not understand what they encountered that they won't even leave negative reviews to warn others. The group therapists will teach other this method to the next generation of group therapists who want to make modest living from vulnerable dependent people.

Promises, promises and essentially a sales pitch by a guy who looks disheveled and lacks facial expressions, but uses a rhythmic almost hypnotizing voice to gain your trust and convince you to serve him in one of his groups.. a lot of these AGPA members teach other the hustle - how to attract and retain people, and so they use things like this to do it. It's a worked out system with sale pitches and ways to get people to stay. Obviously, the promises are self serving in nature for the provider, and the fact that many of the group leaders are in it to manipulate and use people in the groups they create and not just to benefit them. Needless to say, AGPA seems to be full of manipulators and practicing with ethics is not their strong point.

Irvin Yalom, MD, is awesome and an inspiration. So very true and love the insight! Thank you!

💡 let there be light ✨️

what's up with these female therapists' lower part of the face having unhappy downward lines..

lots of harms and lots os psychopaths and cult leaders go into group therapy to have patients serve their needs - pray on vulnerable people; notice how this woman does a salespitch and purposely fails to educate about harm from therapy in 30% of cases as shown in research

Is it even ethical for a therapist to do a sales pitch without educating about the research evidenced and case reported harm from group therapy and the downsides? Nooope. Red flag! Does the AGPA organization police the quality of its supposed members and kick out those who aren't up to their quality standard? Nooope, they don't kick anyone out unless that person gets de-licensed by DPH. Okay.. so we are in the room. Look at this woman's face? Does it look like a normal face or slightly crazy person's face? Look at her wide open eyes and the lines around her mouth - what kind of personality type and potential personal psych issues does therapist have just judging based on that? You'd say I am attacking this person, but yet I am doing what she encourages in the group - 'giving feedback.' You see how giving feedback can be inappropriate and harmful, right? So it can be just so in group. And here lies the scheme.. it's called trauma bonding. With all this shame discussion and giving feedback, the person gets traumatized especially in a group setting, but the therapist starting sweet talking and promising things and saying how she recommend group therapy always.. and this cycle of first charmed and getting people to drop down their guard and then traumatizing them with the 'group feedback' makes the person convert into an obedient regular client 'trauma bonded' and dependent on their therapist. Not true? Prove me wrong. Oh wait.. this therapist expects people to just trust her because she has letters next to her name and is an office and is a member of an organization that does not kick anybody out for poor quality.. I ask this therapist how much of her own pattern does she understand - her own words here. And before you judge me, this a laboratory here like she says, and it is only that I want the pattern that the AGPA therapists and many other therapists use to change to be more.. ethical. Anyway. Hope this helps! Just trying to illustrate the manipulations, hypocrisy, and pitfalls here as well unethical practices. Search for reviews for Cecil Rice and James P Leone - the reviews will help you make sense of what these sketchy AGPA members and sketchy Boston Institute of Psychotherapy grads the kind of scam they run..

I listen to this video every day ❤️

Allah revealed this to me: "Islam is the fastest imploding religion in the world because more and more Muslims are realising that Mohammad and others (breakdown below) fabricated the Quran to persue their own personal agendas. Islam is nothing but 7th century Arabic tribalism. Muslims are much better and bigger than this supremacist ideology. I love all Muslims as people, but dislike the Supremacist Quranic ideology they follow." 1000% support to all Ex Muslims from 7 billion of us (includes many Muslims)...Lovers of Truth. Breakdown of Quranic inputs as revealed to me by Allah... 10% Mohammad 30% Plagerised from Christian, Jewish and pagan texts. 59% Added on after Mohammad. 1% Eaten by a goat. 0% Allah.

In the Islamic world only 19% Muslims of the world are Arabs. 81% of Muslims are not Arabs. However, because the Quran is written in Arabic, because the holiest sites of Islam are in Saudi Arabia, and because by God they have lot of money and oil they do not regard themselves and many Muslims do no regard Arabs as a Minority Muslims.

The Supreme Court of India is hearing a special petition - to address the status of minority communities - statewise instead of at national level. Hearing to this lecture by Dr Salman Akhtar, should provide everyone, including Honorable Judges, an interesting take on the subject

Any patient here? God bless the patients. I hope nobody ever need a therapist; and world become so kind to each other.

Very well spoken 👌& worth hearing again. don't SEE him, don't go to his NAME, don't analyse HIM (just listen & internalize)

Is he not projecting his own sense of judging another person on the guy in the bar? The man may have asked out of simple curiosity but Mr Akhtar thought in terms of minority and majority which is actually Mr Akhtar ‘s way of thinking about dividing in terms of minority and majority

12:05 most clear definition(s) of MINORITY 17:42 minority status even after many generations over hundreds years are still minority

Just watch his lallantop interview was wonderful

Excellent

Amazing! Can't like the speech enough..

Great 👊

Moved by the tribute to the late Carl Rogers.

Very moving ending.

Phils book "Addiction as an Attachment Disorder"is outstanding-gives lucid context as to the deep human need for appropriate and healthy connection and safety

Irv you are the only psychiatrist who makes sense!!!!